Many men will be turning fifty this year and there are
many adjustments one has to get used to with this milestone.
There’s the dreaded colonoscopy men are told to get this done when they hit this age.
Men are notorious for avoiding the doctor
but this is something you must have done because early detection is vital in
recovering if you are diagnosed with colon cancer so make those doctor
appointments gentlemen.
The other realization about turning fifty is that sexually you may suffer
some decline in your sex drive and stimuli.
As a young man you take for granted your sexual hunger
will always be that of a 20 yr old male, ready on demand but something happens
to the male body as it matures.
Suddenly you look down and there’s a stomach pouch that
was not there before and your energy to go two or three rounds of sex a night
has dwindled down to one.
Most men at this age are lucky to get in one good round
of sex for about ten minutes and that's all she wrote.
The most
disappointing thing of all is that you find it's difficult to get an erection
let alone sustain one.
This has been described as erectile dysfunction or Low T
which is defined as lack of male testosterone.
It's when your brain and your testes (Nuts) are not
communicating.
Who knew the male lower region really does have a mind
of its own?
For more information on Low t check out the link below.
Men don't
usually talk about not being able to get it up let alone not satisfying a woman;
to hear some guys talk there is no women that they have not or could not bring
to orgasm.
You can trust that there are many women who can attest
to that being just what it is; all talk.
Well fella's let's take a leap and talk about some of
the short comings we face sexually turning fifty.
Yes I like many of you out there have experienced a
certain lack of enthusiasm from my little (no pun intended) friend down there
not always being up for the challenge. Whew, there I said it.
The mind is saying let's do this but for some reason
it's not being communicated downstairs (Low T).
Is it low T or old age? Hell all I know is sometimes
I'm happy to just lie on my butt sleep or watch T.V.
The way I explain it to myself is that males are so
busy getting sex or trying to that by the time we hit fifty we are all screwed
out. Come on fella’s you know there is some truth to that.
Women on the
other hand who are now reaching late thirty’s and forty plus seem to be hitting
their prime sex years.
They are not afraid to go for what they want so as men
we better eat our Wheaties.
Okay so let’s
say you are a man experiencing this problem, where do you go to get as we say
taken care of?
How many of you guys while reading (yeah right) I mean
looking at porn magazines have ever gave those advertisements for prolong erection sprays or stay hard
pills a second look?
Well fortunately for us guys (and gals) a couple of
scientists named Peter Dunn and Albert Wood came up with a marvelous little
blue pill called Viagra.
Today television is flooded with commercials about
regaining your sexual prowess by taking one product or another so you can be
ready to perform at the drop of a hat.
At the end of these commercials they run through a list
of side effects that may occur from using such sexual stimulates.
You are left thinking well damn if it causes all of
that then I'm better off using my hand, mouth or even a dildo to get my woman
off. At least this way I know me trying to sex like I am 25 won't result in my
having to get a shot in my penis (for lasting errection) or worse my death from
a heart attack. Scary huh?
Learn more about the side effects from taking Viagra that can
or may occur:
To complicate matters more some men may avoid sex with
their partner because of Low T.; thus causing her to feel like you no longer
find her attractive and we being men just let that thought marinate in her mind
instead of confessing our sexual concerns.
After all sex is what defines us as men so if you are
unable to perform that makes you less of a man or does it?
Unfortunately some men buy into this great myth about
manhood but in fact you learn as you grow that there is a lot more required for
your passage into manhood.
Read more about passage into manhood by following this
link to an article written by Steven Foster- Passage into Manhood -A modern
ritual for young men: www.context.org/iclib/ic16/foster/
Fifty brings
about change and it's just something we as men have to be adult about and take
better care of ourselves.
Get your lazy
butt off the couch exercise workout and make better food choices.
Don't be afraid to use your imagination.
Introducing sex toys or role plays into the bedroom can
bring about the hotness and sensuality to raise your you know whose attention
to participate fully in the game at hand.
Watch adult movies together and don't masturbate as
much.
Save some of that energy for her and let loose in the
bedroom or wherever the mood strikes.
Even more important talk to your doctor, talk to your
woman take matters into you own hands (once again no pun intended) and be
proactive.
Turning fifty does not signify the end of your sexual
activity but the beginning for what can be more exciting pure unadulterated sex
so let your fifties freak flag fly.
Written By: Larry D. Miller
Larry D. Miller has over 20 yrs in the field of crisis intervention
as a call center supervisor for Runaway/Homeless at risk youth and families.
Larry enjoys
spending time with his family, writing (Larry has completed and published his
first book) and playing golf.
You
can find him online at his book's facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/pages/How-to-cheat-and-not-get-busted/115333998547614?ref=hl) his blog http://larrydm.blogspot.com or his Twitter page (https://twitter.com/LarryDWWilf)
